The Best Wedding Venues in Oakdale, NY

The Best Wedding Venues in Oakdale, NY

How do we sort results, including Sponsored Ads and personalized results?


24 Wedding Venues in Oakdale, NY

Quick responder
Swan Lake Caterers 

5.0

Manorville, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $15,000

Swan Lake is a new and unique destination in Long Island's East End for hosting your events. We are located on the award winning Swan Lake Golf Course which allows us to offer a unique backdrop on our beautiful greens. Swan Lake Caterers is a banquet hall wedding venue located in Manorville, New York. This event space is nestled within the Swan Lake Golf Course, offering beautiful grounds and picturesque views for your special day. Swan Lake Caterers aims to provide the perfect setting for your dream day, offering quality cuisine, elegant event spaces, and comprehensive rental packages to make your day unforgettable.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
Choosing a wedding venue is one of the biggest decisions you'll make during the planning process and I can confidently say, choosing Swan Lake Caterers was the best decision we made. I’m so excited to write this review so other couples can have a similarly incredible experience! I looked everywhere around the tri-state area from Jersey, to Connecticut, all the boroughs (including Staten Island!!) to all over Long Island. Swan Lake Caterers was actually the first venue I visited, and I fell in love instantly. But, like many brides, I was indecisive. I kept searching, trying to be sure… and after every other tour, I kept coming back to Swan Lake in my heart, I had a feeling it was the one! And it absolutely was. The entire day was seamless, magical, and full of joy. One of the most touching things someone said to me was from my sister. She told me, “So many brides can’t enjoy their wedding day because there’s so much going on but we could see in your face how carefree and happy you were. You were truly having fun” This was in large part due to Swan Lake Caterers allowing me to focus on my husband, family and friends. They gave us peace of mind, beautiful surroundings, and the freedom to be fully present in every moment. The food was out of this world, our guests are still talking about it! Sophia and Charlie really catered to what we wanted and to our guests’ dietary needs! Including three of our vegan family members. The venue itself was picture perfect. It was elegant, romantic, and timeless! One of my guests said it looked like it was out of a Disney movie. Elena, our maitre-d worked with me in the months leading up to the wedding to make sure the decor and vibe was everything we wanted. She knocked it out of the park! Even though it was a little chilly, and started to drizzle, Sophia was in contact with us in the week leading up to it, to make sure everyone was comfortable temperature wise. They were so unimaginably attentive to us! The day of, Elena made sure that even without a rehearsal everything went off without a hitch. Speaking of attentiveness, Jill, my bridal attendant, was simply amazing. She made sure we had drinks in our hand, food on our plates, helped me fix the train on my dress a million and one times. I’m pretty sure they helped one of my guests fix a ripped dress? Seriously. People said it was one of the best weddings they’ve been to! If you're thinking about getting married here, stop thinking and just say YES. I can’t express how incredibly grateful I am to Swan Lake Caterers and would love it for every other couple (and their guests) to have a similar experience!
Ashley B., 7 months ago
Quick responder
Bourne Mansion 

5.0

Oakdale, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor

This historic Vanderbilt mansion is a turn-of-the-century work of art that offers a traditional and classic setting for the grandest black tie affairs. From lawn events hosting over 1,000 guests, to weddings and corporate affairs hosting 300 guests, Bourne Mansion personifies luxury and grandeur and the elaborate celebrations of yesteryear. Bourne Mansion is conveniently located, only 90 minutes from New York City, yet worlds away.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Classic elegance
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
We got married 1/5/25 but had been working with Miriam for probably a year and a half before our big day. She was always so personable with us a treated us like family. Words cannot describe the love and care we felt from Jake, our maître D and Samantha, our bridal attendant, on our wedding day. We were cared for tediously and effortlessly. We felt like at ease, happy and totally relaxed. I needed Samantha and didn’t even know it, I am forever indebted to her - she could not have been more attentive and wonderful. Comforting me, assuring me, getting me where I need to be and when. So friendly, kind and amazing. Thank god for Jake. He is so special and we’re so lucky we got him as our maître D. He deems himself as a “yes man” and he is not lying. Anything you could have ever wanted from him, he’d deliver. We wanted for nothing, had wonderful direction from him all night and he took care of EVERYTHING!  The night was flawless, amazing, perfect and all we could have ever hoped for. The staff at Bourne is unmatched, we made the right choice with this venue. Guests will be in awe of the venue and talk about the food for years to come. I wish I could do it all again. Thank you Bourne mansion & staff for the best night of our lives! I don’t have all my pics back yet!
Sara C., a year ago
Quick responder
View 

5.0

Oakdale, NY
  • Up to 180 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

At the mouth of the Connetquot River and overlooking Great South Bay, View is Long Island's ideal location for wedding and social events - an atmosphere that is at once elegant and casual. The light and airy main dining room boasts a crisp seaside vibe, with walls of windows, white leather chairs, and rich wood tones. The outdoor patio affords panoramic views of the bay alongside a 20-slip marina, perfect for cocktails and hors d'oeuvres or waterfront ceremonies.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
View was an absolute delight to work with for our wedding. Their communication style was easy and responsive, which made the planning process a breeze. The quality of their work and overall value was exceptional - the venue was beautiful, with an open, spacious floor plan that was perfect for hosting our party and entertaining our guests. The staff made us feel so valued and important, never hesitating to go above and beyond to ensure our special day was perfect. As the bride, I was thrilled to be taken care of so well by the entire team. This place is truly a hidden gem - if you're looking for an oceanfront venue with a non-traditional, whole-style approach but with top-notch service, View is the perfect choice.
Angela B., 2 months ago
GemHidden gem
Tiki Boat Long Island 

5.0

Oakdale, NY
  • Up to 29 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $1,769

At Tiki Boat Long Island, our mission is to create fun, enjoyable, and memorable experiences for all our guests. We are dedicated to ensuring that every cruise is not just a trip, but a celebration of life and camaraderie. Tiki Boat Long Island offers Unique Long Island Booze Cruises. Complete with Full-service bar, Spacious dance floor, VIP seating, Restroom, Sound System, Lighting System, USB ports and Misters (for hot days or nights). This vessel is perfect for bachelorette parties or any other celebration. Create one-of-a-kind memories that last for a lifetime. Catering is available upon request. Included is a USCG Master Captain, Bartender, and Host/Hostess to serve your needs. We accommodate from groups of 2 people up to 29 guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Provides catering services
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-site bridal suite
  • Does not allow pets
Celebrated our Anniversary on the Tiki Boat Long Island…First off Booking it was easy, informative and helpful…the total experience was great…fun and relaxing. We were able to play our own music on their Bluetooth stereo system…it had a dance floor, substantial seating and our bartender was fun and interactive! Overall a wonderful and memorable experience!!…Thank you Tiki Boat Long Island for making our special day extra special!
Annette and K., 2 years ago
Quick responder
Mansion at Timber Point 

5.0

Great River, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Nestled on the bank of the Great South Bay with panoramic views of Fire Island, the Mansion at Timber Point is a beautiful and inviting setting for the wedding ceremony of your dreams. The bride’s big day will commence in the lovely bridal suite, where the bridal party is welcome to prepare for the big moment. A beautiful white wedding gazebo is perched at the edge of the stone patio overlooking the rolling greens of the golf course, which give way to a magnificent bay view, for a romantic exchange of vows. Inside of this historic mansion you’ll find classic country décor with modern lighting and sound systems, ensuring a full night of dancing. Every detail will fall perfectly into place with the help of the experienced staff while the bride and groom enjoy their fairytale evening.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Blends luxury with trendiness
  • Exudes old-world charm
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
I got married on 10/24/25 and I cannot say enough good things about the mansion at timber point. Every single staff member that I interacted with was incredible and helpful from Lauren, who helped us from day one until the very end, to April and Emma who made my day more perfect than I could've ever imagined. they truly care that your day is as perfect as they would want for themselves on their own day. The venue is STUNNING, the bridal suite is huge and gorgeous, the food was TO DIE FOR. I don't have a single regret or wish for something to have gone differently because our day was beyond my wildest dreams. THANK YOU to the whole staff!!
Jennie E., 2 months ago
Quick responder
The Mansion at West Sayville 

5.0

West Sayville, NY
  • Up to 205 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Located in West Sayville, NY, Mansion at West Sayville is a historic waterfront venue that hosts weddings and other milestone events. The management of this exquisite facility invites you to hold your special celebration in this setting with sweeping views of the Great South Bay. You and your loved ones can anticipate festivities with a private club ambience - a truly remarkable backdrop for your important day.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides event staff
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
The Mansion at West Sayville is a gorgeous venue inside and out, and we’re so happy we chose it for our wedding. We loved the vibe from our first visit. It doesn't feel like a wedding factory, but being a Lessing's Venue you know they know what they are doing. Bob was down to earth, practical, and never tried to upsell us or pressure us into adding anything we didn’t need. Anytime I emailed Bob with a question, he responded within minutes and was always very on top of things. On the day of, everything about the wedding itself went so smoothly. Ann Marie the maitre d and Camille the bridal attendant were sweet, attentive, and so good at what they do. They set up our decor so beautifully and packed it away in an organized way at the end of the wedding. Ann Marie kept everything running smoothly, and Camille made sure we always had whatever we wanted, from food and bar drinks to our own pitcher of water when she noticed we were “the most hydrated couple she’d ever worked with” (lol). The bartender and all of our waitstaff were so attentive and wonderful too. The food was delicious and we got so many compliments about it, and about our venue in general. Our wedding day was truly unforgettable and The Mansion at West Sayville played a huge role in that!
Emily L., 5 months ago
Quick responder
Windows on the Lake 

3.5

Lake Ronkonkoma, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $90

Windows on the Lake is the The Most Romantic Waterfront Venue on Long Island. See what couples are raving about with our award winning wedding venue. Some of The Unique Features: • Catering to Only “One Wedding At A Time", so we can focus all our attention on your wedding. • Beautiful Waterfront Setting with spectacular sunsets create memorable weddings. • Majestic Gardens complete with palm trees for a tropical setting, (in -season). • Beautiful waterfront wedding chapel available for your On-Site Ceremony. • Outdoor patio for an on the water cocktail hour with Fabulous Food Stations. • Elegant Ballroom with floor-to-ceiling windows providing panoramic water views. • Our one-of-a-kind lighting and in-house sound system can make your event special. • International Menus and Presentations to impress your guests. • Special Ethnic, Halal and Kosher menus can be accommodated. • Experienced In-House Event Specialist to make your event "Stress Free".

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Realmente fue mi sueño hecho realidad.me sentí princesa en el cuento de hadas,todo estuvo bello espectacular,la atención desde que comienzas tus preparativos hasta el final ,Luis es un ser espectacular y La persona que estuvo al pendiente de mi el día de la boda.ella Es maravillosa Vickie gracias
Ana V., 2 years ago
Quick responder
Essex Club 

4.9

Brentwood, NY
  • Up to 215 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

With resplendent garden views, a picturesque gazebo and a magnificent ballroom, Essex Club sets the scene for an extraordinary wedding or special event. Set amidst 50-acres of rolling greens and perennial gardens, the quaint country club can be customized to the setting of your dreams no matter the occasion. Be it an al fresco cocktail hour, a sophisticated fundraiser or an exchange of vows at the edge of the sprawling lawn, your vision will come to life at Essex Club.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Provides catering services
  • Picturesque garden backdrop

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Awarded Best of Zola
We had our wedding at The Essex Club and it was truly flawless from start to finish. The venue itself is beautiful, but what really made the experience exceptional was the level of care that went into every single detail. From the very beginning, Jessica in sales was incredible. She was organized, responsive, and genuinely invested in making sure our day turned out exactly the way we envisioned it. No matter how many questions we had or how many little tweaks we wanted to make, she always handled everything with patience, kindness, and complete professionalism. She made the entire planning process feel so easy. The day-of staff was just as amazing our bridal attendant Jalissa and the maître D Rob were both attentive and on top of everything without ever being intrusive. The rest of the staff ran everything so smoothly and make sure every detail was perfect. Our guests are still talking about how delicious the food was, we went to all the show cases that we could and picked off experience, from cocktail hour all the way through dessert. Every dish was fresh, beautifully presented, and full of flavor. We couldn’t have asked for a better venue or a better team.
Victoria V., 2 months ago
GemHidden gem
Drift82 

5.0

Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 175 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $12,000

Drift 82 is a waterfront wedding venue located on the Patchogue River, offering sweeping views of the Great South Bay. With flexible indoor and outdoor spaces, coastal charm, and a relaxed yet refined atmosphere, Drift 82 provides a stunning setting for ceremonies and receptions designed to feel personal, effortless, and unforgettable!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • No free parking
Drift 82 was everything we dreamed of for our wedding day. The waterfront views created the most romantic backdrop, and the space felt elegant while still warm and inviting. From planning to the last dance, communication was smooth and reassuring, and the staff made us feel truly taken care of. Our guests raved about the setting and the overall flow of the day. It was the kind of wedding that felt effortless, joyful, and incredibly special!!
Maddy, 4 days ago
GemHidden gem
Chops Steakhouse 

5.0

Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 50 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $5,000

Chops Steakhouse in Patchogue Village is a premier steakhouse and event-friendly venue located in the heart of downtown Patchogue. With a prohibition-inspired atmosphere, upscale menu featuring dry-aged steaks, fresh seafood, creative cocktails, and a world-class bourbon selection, Chops offers an elegant backdrop for celebrating special occasions.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has an intimate atmosphere
  • Has onsite accommodations
  • Handles all cleanup logistics

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • On-site parking not available
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
We had my bridal shower at Chops Steakhouse and it truly exceeded every expectation. The space was stylish and intimate, the speakeasy vibe set the tone for such a fun day, and the food had everyone raving. It felt special, elevated, and full of great energy—exactly what you want for a once-in-a-lifetime celebration!
Rebecca, 2 days ago
GemHidden gem
VIP Room Catered Events 

5.0

Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 125 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $5,000

VIP Room in Patchogue is an elegant private event venue on Main Street that’s perfect for weddings, parties, and special occasions, offering a beautiful space with a full bar and attentive staff to make every celebration memorable. We combine modern style with personalized service and delicious catering options, ensuring your event feels both special and seamless from start to finish!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Provides catering services
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No free parking
Christine and her staff at the VIP Room are absolutely amazing. From the moment I viewed the space, through booking, the night before, setup, and all the way to the very last second of my event, everything was handled flawlessly. I didn’t have to worry about a single thing anything I thought of was already taken care of. They truly went above and beyond. Christine makes you feel like family and I truly could not thank her enough for making my wedding day so special… Cannot wait to plan my next event here!!
Tashilee S., 25 days ago
James Betz 

5.0

Ocean Beach, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor

Established in 1936. Current owners since 1995. Waterfront. Sunsets. Outdoor deck. Inside dance floor. Island Bar with top shelf liquor. All in one venue, catering, setting! Maguires owners Jim Betz, general manager and Drew Becker, Chef, will make your wedding day a memorable experience. Located in Ocean Beach, Fire Island you have a destination wedding right in your New York back yard. Have your guests travel across the Great South Bay on a beautiful ferry and take in the town of Ocean Beach with spectacular beach on the Atlantic Ocean and interesting clothing stores, ice cream shops, markets and gift shops. Let us take the guesswork out of your wedding day.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • On-site parking not available
While planning an off-season wedding on Fire Island is daunting, Jim, Drew and the whole Maguire's crew made it easy! Quick responses, and really worked with us to deliver exactly what we wanted for our big day - even with some ridiculous requests. The food was incredible, setup was better, and the vibe was one that our friends and family STILL talk about to this day....6 years later! I actually can't write enough good things about this venue. It was the best day of our life, pulled off effortlessly. My husband and I are actually already planning to do a 10-year anniversary party there - at our guests' requests! We love Maguire's, and the view is not so bad either ;).
Alexandra & C., 5 years ago
Quick responder
Stonebridge Country Club 

5.0

Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Stonebridge Country Club combines the natural beauty of its surroundings with exceptionally elegant settings for special events. Spectacular view of our meticulously manicured golf course, coupled with hands-on hospitality from our staff and the Lessing’s reputation, make Stonebridge the premier destination for any special occasion.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
Awarded Best of Zola
Stonebridge is an amazing place to have your wedding! From the beautiful grounds and spaces to the great people, we could not have been happier to have booked Stonebridge. Gregg was amazing throughout the planning process, he was very helpful and always answered any questions we had almost immediately! On the day of the wedding, Terrence went above and beyond to make sure the evening ran as smooth as possible, and he truly succeeded! Alex, our bridal attendant was also awesome and was by our sides when we needed her! The food was amazing, we are still hearing from our guests how good the food was compared to any other wedding they have been to. Our guests kept saying it was the best wedding they have ever been to! That speaks volumes about Stonebridge and the staff who go above and beyond to make sure your special day is the best day ever. Don’t hesitate to book Stonebridge, you will not regret it!
Marisa C., a year ago
Quick responder
Watermill Caterers 

4.4

Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 500 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor

One of Long Island's best-kept secrets, our sprawling estate is nestled in the heart of Suffolk County and is surrounded by manicured landscapes, winding pathways and historic architecture. With an atmosphere of rustic elegance and timeless beauty, the Watermill is the perfect marriage of old-world charm and luxurious modern comforts—perfectly providing the finest amenities and endless enchantments at every turn. For more than 25 years, the Watermill has fostered joy and thousands of lasting memories through an unyielding commitment to providing unparalleled service, award-winning cuisine, and an unforgettable experience for each and every guest who walks through our doors.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a chic vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Watermill Caterers was an absolute pleasure to work with for our wedding. From the moment we first reached out, their communication was attentive, responsive, and respectful - they made the entire planning process feel easy and smooth. The quality of their work was truly amazing, with a stunning, modern, and updated event space that exceeded all of our expectations. They helped make all of our wedding day dreams come true, handling every detail with care and ensuring the day went off without a hitch. I would book with Watermill Caterers again in a heartbeat.
Amanda K., a year ago
GemHidden gem
Rockefellers Kitchen & Cocktails 

5.0

Lake Grove, NY
  • Up to 100 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $1,300

Rockefellers Kitchen and cocktails offers our Gatsby room for a private event in our timeless space, known for its Old New York charm, elegant atmosphere, and thoughtfully curated menus. Whether you’re envisioning an intimate gathering or a lively celebration, our experienced events team is here to help bring every detail together seamlessly.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Provides event staff
  • Offers convenient lodging options

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
I just hosted the most amazing private party at Rockefeller’s Kitchen and Cocktails, and I’m still buzzing from it! From start to finish, everything was perfect the venue really knows how to make an event special. The space was absolutely beautiful, with the perfect balance of stylish and cozy. We had the whole area to ourselves, and the ambiance was just right for our group. The private space gave us the freedom to have fun without worrying about the crowd, and the staff was super accommodating.
Aly, 10 days ago
Quick responder
Bayberry 
Islip, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000
  • Offer

Bayberry is a beautiful wedding and events venue in the heart of Islip, NY. It offers a warm and stylish setting for a reception, complete with thoughtful decor and amazing food that set the tone for a joyful evening. The space can accommodate up to 100 guests and includes a 40 seat bar and an outdoor patio where guests can mingle and enjoy the fresh air. It is perfect for intimate celebrations or lively gatherings with family and friends. The Bayberry team will work closely with you to bring your wedding vision to life. Their chefs craft menus inspired by bistro classics using quality ingredients and refined techniques. Guests can enjoy handcrafted cocktails, a curated wine selection, or their favorite beer. With attentive staff handling each detail, you can relax and enjoy a night to remember.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Creates a sense of togetherness
  • Flexible event spaces
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Does not provide event staff
  • Couple must handle cleanup and setup
  • No on-site bridal suite
Wind Watch Golf and Country Club 
Hauppauge, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Starts at $1,200

Elevate your celebration at Wind Watch Golf & Country Club, a high-end Long Island destination. Perched in Hauppauge, this venue boasts stunning, panoramic views of the North Shore from one of the island's highest summits—a breathtaking backdrop for your wedding, rehearsal dinner, or bridal shower. While renowned for its pristine golf course, Wind Watch specializes in creating luxurious social events. It offers the perfect blend of natural beauty and classic country club elegance, complete with exceptional catering services and a sophisticated, well-appointed clubhouse setting designed to make your day truly unforgettable.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Multiple event spaces

Venue considerations

  • No in-house catering options
  • Additional event staff required
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Courtyard by Marriott Long Island MacArthur Airport 
Ronkonkoma, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor

Celebrate your special day in style at our Long Island hotel wedding venue. With flexible spaces and expert assistance from our dedicated team, your dream wedding is within reach. Treat your guests to spacious accommodations and the convenience of our hotel's prime location. Choose from our elegant boardroom venue, boasting natural lighting, a beautiful oak table, and ergonomic chairs for maximum comfort. Let us take care of every detail, ensuring a seamless and unforgettable experience for you and your loved ones. Say "I do" to the perfect wedding at our Long Island hotel.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Handles all cleanup logistics
  • Provides event staff
  • Versatile for various event styles

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
  • No free parking
Quick responder
Beach Club Estate 
Lake Ronkonkoma, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $89

We offer a private, secluded, hideaway tucked away on the Secluded 3 mile round Glazier Lake of Long Island’s largest freshwater lake, the Beautiful Lake Ronkonkoma. Coupled with our breathtaking views, you become enveloped in the calm and serene beauty of the countryside Look. Our 5 star Chefs Superb Cuisine and exceptional service combine to offer you memories of a lifetime. Featuring a on the lake chapel, romantic sunsets, amazing water views, beautiful natural gardens, and waterfalls & antique fountains — there are plenty of splendid photo opportunities for you. This is a Newly Renovated Beautiful Mansion on the Water is a One of Kind Place on Long Island with its has Caribbean vibe surrounded with palm trees and breathtaking views for memorable pictures.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Has a luxe vibe

Venue considerations

  • Limited cleanup and setup services
  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • No free parking
Quick responder
Goldy's Gems 
Bay Shore, NY
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Offer

Goldy’s is a fun, stylish venue with cozy lounges, warm lighting and a lively atmosphere perfect for bridal showers, birthdays and upbeat private events. Celebrate in a charming space filled with energy and feel good moments.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • Additional event staff required
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Quick responder
The Better Man Distilling Company 
Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $20,000

The Better Man Distilling Co is a one-of-a-kind venue packed with personality and charm. Our mid century modern tasting room and outdoor patio and grass areas provide numerous different backdrops for guests to mingle and make memories. The distillery is worlds away from the typical no-personality event venue. Our mid century modern decor, outdoor patio and pergola, and grass area make this the perfect place for any kind of event. Plus, lots of amazing photo spots!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Flexible event spaces
  • Has an energetic and exciting atmosphere

Venue considerations

  • Additional event staff required
  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-premises lodging options
Quick responder
Lombardi'S On The Bay 
Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $99

Cited by the New York Times as a location where “The food is as good as the views,” experience the Lombardi Family tradition of fine cuisine at Lombardi’s on the Bay. A property of Lombardi Caterers, a renowned entity in Long Island Hospitality, Lombardi’s on the Bay continues Lombardi’s 40-year-tradition of quality cuisine and service. With breathtaking views of the Great South Bay, Lombardi’s on the Bay offers a legendary elegance exclusive to this venue. Whether dining in our restaurant, enjoying a catered event in our banquet hall, or having your dream wedding where you are the only bride, Lombardi’s on the Bay is your choice for perfection and class.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Designed for grand celebrations
  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
Quick responder
Insignia 
Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

At Insignia, every wedding is a wonderful creation that’s as refreshingly different as your love together. Our elegant, modern décor both indoors and out is a beautiful departure from typical wedding halls. Combining the look and feel of a Hamptons-style mansion with a chic, upscale Manhattan restaurant, it sets the stage for a truly memorable experience.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a glamorous vibe
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No free parking
  • Does not allow pets

Location flexible? Discover venues near Oakdale, NY

About wedding venues in Oakdale, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

What types of wedding venues are in Oakdale, NY?

What other Oakdale vendors will I need?

What other wedding venues are nearby?

What other wedding services are nearby?