Rev. Heather Carlile, MA, LPC-S

As a professional couples counselor and ordained wedding officiant with over 22 years of experience, I bring both heart and depth to every ceremony. My work is rooted in helping couples build lasting, authentic connection—whether through my Designing Intimacy: A Blueprint for Lasting Connection course or the vows they speak on their wedding day. I create fully customized ceremonies, guiding each couple in shaping their own symbolic language of love and like to include the love letters you write in the ceremony. I offer to include the children if the couple are creating a new blended family. I create keepsake booklets of your wedding vows.

From classic rituals like the exchanging of rings, lighting the Unity Candle and sand mixing, to preparing a love letter wine box, every element is chosen to honor the uniqueness of your bond. Marriage is more than a moment—it's a lifelong myth in motion. I’m here to help you begin that story with beauty, romance, meaning, and sanctity Since I am a couples counselor, I can also offer pre-marital sessions and a Couples Composite Enneagram Mastery Map to prepare you for understanding your personality styles and wisdom for building your own unique Designer Marriage.

In three words: Collaborative, Creative, Resourceful